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Cass Robinson's avatar

This has definitely been a time of reflection for me much, of which, has centered around defining a good life. I have partially settled on having the luxury of solitude. Not loneliness but the ability to choose to be quiet and peaceful with no distractions.

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Ron Balthazor's avatar

Thanks for these words, Cass. Yes, the luxury of solitude! Wishing you and Ben a wonderful Christmas.

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Cass Robinson's avatar

See you Saturday!

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Melissa Ray's avatar

Right now, living well for me means allowing the ebbs and flows, waning and waxing, THE SEASONS inside. I am currently looking back and grieving the period of slowness and smallness that existed after having my two children: my home, my garden, my family, a few friends—that was the world! Now I am in a different season, and it is full of energy and excitement (and stress) forming and leading a new nonprofit to protect a wild space here in town. The quiet season before made it possible for me to do this work now. Winter into summer. Now the trick will be listening and observing well enough to know when the next season has arrived, and it’s time to slow down again. I wish it was as easy for me as it seems to be for the birds!

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Ron Balthazor's avatar

Thanks M for this lovely post. I look forward to watching all the seasons of your life. Wishing you and the family a wonderful New Year and season of Yule.

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Garrett Paschal's avatar

Lovely piece. I've recently read a few of Nikos Kazantzakis's books and he talks about the prophets and similarly notes their wildness. A friend gifted me Rohr's new book about the prophets, and again there I am hearing about the paradox of prophets. We seem to largely leave them out of our spiritual nourishment, so I am glad to read your meditations on them!

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Ron Balthazor's avatar

Thanks for these good words, Garrett. I continue to be deeply moved by the voices crying in the wilderness. Someday soon let's have a good conversation over coffee. Wishing you and Rachel a wonderful Christmas. Peace and love.

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Janisse Ray's avatar

Living well has to include integrity. I use the word ethics. These began to form with the Christianity of my childhood but quickly moved beyond that. I think basic ethics is understanding what feels terrible to you—grief, pain, shame, fear, etc—and not wanting to cause that to others.

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Ron Balthazor's avatar

Thanks, Janisse. I agree that understanding our shared brokenness and having empathy for others in their pain is transformative and key to living well. Wish you and the family a wonderful Solstice/Yule/Christmas.

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